I am encountering a situation I have never encountered before and I need your advice on it. I have dated this girl for three years and we are tight like that. We have been friends for the longest time before this and the relationship has been very nice so far. Only problem is that somewhere last year she said we should spice up our bed game small and she suggested anal. I was shocked fam. I didn’t know there are females who enjoy doing that. Some guys like it but I’m not that type. It’s not natural and it’s a major turn off to me. I told her naaa I don’t do that. She got angry with me because of that. I love this girl so much that later I told her I will do it once. It was weird for me tbh but she enjoyed it.
Another time I was knacking her then she removed my joystick and tried to put it in her backside. We stopped the lovemaking immediately cos I lost interest and I became soft. Later I sat her down and asked her if something happened in her past for her to like anal and that’s when she told me about a certain guy who was doing that to her in her teens. Me I don’t have money for therapy and all those things so I have been trying to talk to her myself and counsel her myself. Her mind must come home. I’ve told her that we have come a long way to break up because of this issue. After years of friendship and three years of dating, I don’t have time to break up with her. Now the girl has started acting up. Her attitude has changed. She is just frustrating me now.
I want to know if she is worth fighting for. Once a while, I give in to her preference and we do her backside like that. After that, she acts normal with me and we are happy, but if we do the normal s*x and we don’t do the anal then she bore. I spoke to one good friend of mine. He is the only one who knows. He has told me that If I can’t get her a psychologist, I should just let her go. But I love her and this is the only flaw I have found in her. I want to know if this girl is worth fighting for. Should I let her go or nah?