I’ve been in a relationship for the past three years. Recently, some very serious events have happened to my guy and I am angry that he is blaming me for something he used to enjoy. In fact he was the one who initiated it. He told me he and a certain guy in boarding house did things together. He said they both weren’t gay or anything like that but they were just experimenting and for a guy, my boyfriend has a big ass. The guy used to penetrate him and he said it used to hurt but he started enjoying it. After dating for about a year, be showed me a s*x toy and asked us to explore other ways of having s*x. That’s how we started this whole pegging thing. The first time, he knacked me and after he was done, he told me to peg him.
We watched a particular p*rn movie that portrayed pegging and he got on all fours like a woman in a doggy position and lubricated the toy for me. I tied it around my waist and I started knacking him like a man does to a woman. My guy started moaning like a woman and it really turned me on. I didn’t know I will like it at the beginning but I did. Since that time, we do the pegging anytime we have s*x. That is almost everyday for about two years. At a point he told me he wasn’t enjoying that particular toy anymore so we bought a bigger one. They are all shaped like a real p*nis and we had an online shop that sold them to us. We bought more than three so that we can be changing and exploring with it. Doggy is his favourite position but we have tried a lot of other positions. He always had a new style because he never run out of p*rn videos.
We have not had any serious problems apart from one incident. It was a new toy we were using and it was thicker than all we have done before. I lubricated it well but I went a little fast into his anus and he said he felt a sharp pain and we saw blood on the tip of the toy. We stopped the s*x and allowed him to heal after that and we didn’t try for a few days although he was knacking me around that time. When we tried again, I went slow and he enjoyed it and moaned as usual. Now we have a problem, the last time I was about to penetrate him when I saw some flesh hanging in his anus. It looked someway and it wasn’t normal so I told him about it. Later he started complaining about serious itching around his anus and then we got to know it was something called anal warts.
I was the one who helped him to read around the symptoms and we got to know what it was. He has been doing some treatments and it has gotten better. But the issue is that the thing has no cure and he has to manage it like that. He has to watch what he eats and all that. The symptoms kept coming back and we couldn’t do the pegging anymore. He got really depressed and moody, then he started blaming me for being too rough with knacking him. The whole situation is funny to me because he was the one who even asked for it and he was even enjoying it.
We have broken up because of it. My guy denies he is gay but after he got the warts he has gotten more emotional than a woman. I suspect him of sleeping with other guys because warts is an STI. Even though we have broken up, I somehow miss him because he really takes care of me and I am really feeling his absence because now I don’t have enough money and I don’t know what to do.