During my school days, I used to say that men in uniform are my type. It started as a joke with my friends, and then it became an obsession. I was so much into them, especially the soldiers that I was even turning down other guys’ proposals. I remember there was this particular guy who liked me. I somehow felt like he was too calm and gentle for me. Instead of letting him know from the beginning that I wasn’t interested, I played around with him until he realized I wasn’t serious about him and then he stopped worrying me. I did similar things to other guys hoping to get a military guy. I was so into them that I started going through my 4000+ Facebook friends to see if I could see any guy in a military uniform. I wasn’t a nurse, but I joined Facebook nurse groups because I got to know that those guys liked nurses.
It was in one of the nurse groups that I started chatting with this man. He was well built and tall, my type p3p33p3. I posted my picture in the group and he commented that I was cute. I didn’t wait for him to send me a message in my inbox, I went straight ahead and messaged him. He was very responsive and we exchanged our whatsapp contacts and started chatting there. Within a few days, we were doing s*x video calls. Sometimes he will tell me he is tired or bored and I will entertain him by giving him free show. I will twerk on the screen for him to be m*sturbating to it. I couldn’t wait anymore, I was in a hurry to meet him, but we were in different regions. After some weeks, I couldn’t wait anymore. The video calls we were doing was making me more hungry to meet him.
I gathered some money on my own and went over to see him. It was a weekend and he had me to himself the whole weekend. I went to cook for him and then he asked me to do his laundry for him. His dirty things were a lot and I washed all, including his boxer shorts. When I was done, my fingers were even hurting. As for the s*x, we did it for many rounds throughout the weekend. When I was returning home, this guy didn’t even give me ghc1 as transport home. Meanwhile I had spent more than ghc100 in and out. He told me he will send me something when I get home safely. When I got home, he started acting funny and he stopped replying my messages. Later I realised he has blocked me. I cried for the whole week and even posted the story in the nurse group. Through my story, other guys messaged me and started chatting me.
But one of them seemed different. He wasn’t talking about s*x or anything. This guy was encouraging me to rewrite my papers so I can further my education to the tertiary level. I was 20 years and I didn’t have any plans of continuing my education. We were chatting for lonh without him talking about s*x. I was even shocked but I somehow thought he was genuine because of that. I was the one who suggested we meet. He was also in a different region but he was closer than the first guy. He sent me enough money for transport and I trusted him. We really had fun that weekend. He took me out and bought things for me. We also had s*x. He told me he loves me and we started dating from there.
I will cook over the week and bring it to him during the weekend. Then he also started acting someway. Around that time too I got to know I was pregnant. He told me he was not ready to be a father because he is busy and moves often so it will worry him. He told me he knows someone who can abort the baby. I told him no. Hmmm so now I have a six months old baby. His father sends me money once a while but that is all he has been doing for me. I got one police officer who started dating me somewhere last month but after having s*x for some weeks, he just ghosted me like that. After what I have been through with these men, I don’t think I will ever date a man in uniform again.