I am a 28 year old accountant and my younger brother is 24 and in his final year in the university. He stays with me when school is on vacation and we are very close. We do everything together. It has always been the two of us so we trust each other. We are open about our relationships and we share everything. So when he started dating this girl he told me and even showed me her pics. She was a really nice girl and I advised him to take it slow and not rush things. I guess he was in love and so he didn’t listen to me. They started dating on campus. They both attend UG. The next vac, the lady came to visit us at home.
I didn’t like the idea because it had just been a few months and she had already come to visit. My brother introduced her to me and afterwards I went out. When I returned, she was still around watching a movie with my brother. So I sat down and watched with them. I didn’t like how she kept staring at me but I brushed it off. I had even forgotten about that day and after sometime school resumed and they went to school. I was home one saturday morning when I heard a knock and I went to check. It was my brother’s girlfriend. I told her my brother was in school. She said she knew and that she had come to visit her friend in the area and was just passing by to say hi. I didn’t want to keep her outside because it didn’t look like she was leaving soon so I invited her in.
She came to sit down and I went to buy food for both of us. We also watched a movie. I didn’t have any bad intentions. I will never do anything like that to my own brother. After some time, this girl was not leaving and it was getting dark. I asked if she was going back to campus. She said she was, and I told her that she needed to leave because Legon was quite far from Dansoman and it wasn’t advisable to leave my place late. Then she started acting funny. She said the truth is that she had lost her money and she didn’t have money to go to school and that’s why she came to me. I told her I will go and drop her off then. On our way, she kept complementing me and how nice the car is. Meanwhile it’s just a picanto I use for uber on some weekends. Then she would playfully ask if all the guys in our family are as handsome like my brother and I. Then she said I was more handsome than my brother. I saw what she was doing, and I wasn’t going to lead her on.
When we got to her school and I dropped her, I told her that my brother is serious about her and if she doesn’t feel the same way she should just let him know so that she doesn’t hurt him. I also told her I had a serious girlfriend (which was not true) and that she is the jealous type so I wouldn’t want to create any wrong impressions. She was like a younger sister to me. I told her that and I saw that she looked hurt by those words but I had to tell her. Days passed and then I received a lot of nude pics from my whatsapp. It was her, she had gotten my number from my brother and had sent me the nude pics and videos. The only thing was she had carefully cropped her face out. For a man who was single at that time, it was difficult seeing those hot pics and not having an erection. I even masturbated to them, but after masturbating I realized that a girl like this is not good for me or even my brother.
I called my brother to meet him the next saturday. I drove to campus and he met me in the car. We spoke for long, but I didn’t give him the details. I just told him that his girlfriend is not a good girl and he should trust me. He didn’t understand me because not knowing the girl had told him that I said I was in love with her. Thankfully my brother doubted her because he knows I will never do anything like that. So I opened my whatsapp and showed him the pics the girl had sent me. He said she sent him the same nude pics. My brother said he will break up and stay away from her. He did that. Ever since they broke up, I have not known any peace. This girl calls me every minute. I have blocked all the different numbers she uses to call me and she still gets more numbers to call me with. She hasn’t stopped sending me nudes on whatsapp. I wish I can change my number but this is the number I have used for a lot of years and I don’t want to change it. My brother doesn’t know she still sends me nudes and in as much as I am trying to hate this girl, her nudes always makes me horny and I end up masturbating to them. Sometimes she makes me so horny that I just want to invite her over and eat her. The temptation is too much. What should I do?