We dated for two years and he did all the things that I loved. He used to buy me things randomly. We were going out. He was taking me to all the expensive places. We had our honeymoon at the Royal Senchi so you can just imagine. Now our marriage is just three years old and we have a son. My husband has changed towards me. He doesn’t compliment me anymore. He doesn’t tell me he loves me. When I tell him I love him his response is not encouraging. I gained a little weight after delivery and his attitude made me feel insecure about my weight gain.
I downloaded a lot of home workout videos and I was doing that at home gradually. I lost weight almost to how I was before I was pregnant. My husband’s unromantic attitude made me begin to suspect that there may be another woman. I started watching him closely and stalking him. Wanting to know where he was going. But there was nothing really suspicious about him. So I had to stop doing that and avoid any form of paranoia. It’s not as if we are always fighting or having issues. Far from that. I think we have quite a good relationship. We don’t quarrel often. But when we have a misunderstanding we settle it. One thing I really like about him is that when we have a quarrel a previous day and we wake up the following day, he doesn’t act mad or bring it up again.
One of my main issues with him now is when it comes to sex. My husband used to pride himself in making his woman orgasm during the act. He used to suck my nipples until I am in so much pleasure I beg him to stop. He knew how to lick me until my whole body vibrates. But now its not the same again. When its time for sex, the foreplay is short. He wants to penetrate and get it over and done with. I don’t like how he is acting now and he gets satisfied but leaves me unsatisfied. I told him about it and he said we can’t be doing foreplay for hours now since we have responsibilities now. He also says he is tired and hours of foreplay is just a waste of time. I understand him. I really do, but it’s the long hours of foreplay and licking we used to have that made me orgasm. It was one of the reasons why I fell in love with him and now he is not doing it how I like it. He just licks me for a few minutes and goes straight to penetration.
How can I make him more romantic in the bedroom?
