My husband and I were married for nine good years before we had a child. Which hospital have we not visited? Which fertility doctor have we not seen? At first, they said the problem was from my husband. He had low sperm count and so he underwent treatments. After the treatments we went back and they said everything was fine now. We tried other hospitals and they all said everything was fine so we should keep trying and very soon I will get pregnant. I never told anyone that doctors said the fault was from my husband. I was aware that people were saying it was me who couldn’t get pregnant but I kept my cool.
Around that time, this friend of mine invited me to a prayer meeting. She told me the man was very powerful and he had performed many miracles. A lot of testiomies are evident in the meetings, so as a woman who needed a child, I started going for the meetings. We were meeting on tuesday evenings at a school classroom and after the first meeting, all the new people were asked to wait behind. We met the pastor and he asked us all the problems we came with. Then he took our numbers and promised to use our numbers as a point of contact to pray for us. But with me, he told me he will get me a special toffee and I should suck it anytime my husband and I are going to be intimate. The next tuesday, he did just that. He gave me about 5 of the toffees. It was blue and I haven’t seen it before.
I did just as he told me the next time I and my husband were going to do the do. I was chatting the pastor a lot around that time and so I updated him after we were done. That week he was checking up on me a lot and we started chatting about things that were not even in line with my problem. Then one day he said he had gotten a special direction and he had to meet me at his house for some cleansing. At this point I was just desperate to become pregnant so he sent me the location to his house and I ordered an uber and I got there. We started normal prayers and then he started pouring the olive oil (anointing oil) on me. He poured almost all the oil on me that I got very wet. The oil was all over my chest area and I was wearing a simple t-shirt so I felt exposed around my chest and I was a bit shy.
I don’t know how to explain what happened next but he started touching me and holding me in a strange way all of a sudden and we ended up doing it there in his house. This happened for two more times after this and I got pregnant. I knew from the start that it wasn’t my husband’s child. When I told the pastor, he said I should come and share a testimony at our evening meeting of which I did. My husband was very happy about the news and he started pampering me. I was almost 40 at that time and the pastor was in his early 30s and not married. I have a shop and because of the things I sell, I don’t close early. I sell provisions in wholesale prices and the place is busy in the evening so my husband knows. I get home around 9. My husband has no idea I go for these prayer meetings. He doesn’t know about the pastor at all because I close my shop at 5:30 and get to the meeting at 6pm. By 8:30pm we have closed and that’s the time I also close my shop and get home.
Now the problem is that my son is a year old. He looks like the pastor. Even the friend who invited me to the prayer meeting saw it and I had to confess the truth to her. The reason I am sharing this is that I read a similar story of a man whose wife has been brainwashed by a pastor and I realized that it is similar to my story. The secret between me and the pastor is seriously weighing me down and I am having sleepless nights because of it. But my life will end the day my husband finds out.