I’m a 25 year old girl, and since the time I was 16, I have been keeping a secret with these three brothers in my area. The last born was my classmate in SHS and the whole thing just started as a joke, but right now it has become serious. I feel like I can’t come out of it and I don’t know how to stop it. We all grew up in the same area. My mum was selling provisions in the area and when they are going to school, their dad will pass by and buy drinks for them and also take me to school. This was in Primary and JHS. The first and second born went to SHS in another region, but the last born is the one who was very close to me. We’re the same age and we have been in the same class since class 1. We chose the same mixed school in Accra and got it.
I was going to their house a lot and my mum didn’t have a problem with it. It was a normal thing. They are like the dbees in the area. Their house is a storey-building and as a child, I wished I was even staying with them. In SHS I was spending all my time at their place. After school, I will go and do my homework there. I started a bad habit but I guess it was the teenage hormones. I will finger myself when I get home and imagine the first brother. He was the gyming type and he will go to the gym and return when I’m doing homework with the last born. I developed feelings for him but he wasn’t looking at me that way at that time. The thing became so serious that one day I peeped through their bathroom when he was bathing and I saw him naked. It made the whole thing worse. Unexpectedly, the last born, that’s my mate proposed to me in form 2. It was his brother I wanted. I only saw him as a friend.
But he was really good to me that I accepted it. We will come to his house after school as usual. After we do our homework, he will take me to his room and we will do things to ourselves. That’s how I broke my virginity. He also had a lot of porn cds. He will steal them from the first born’s room and we will watch it and have s*x after. This was going on for a while, then one time the second born came home from University. I started seeing that he was looking at me when I come to the house. He will ask about my age and talk about how I have grown within a short time even to the extent of asking if I was dating his brother. I denied it and told him his brother and I were just friends. When we were all children, the three brothers were very close, but as they grew, they all became different and I was even surprised. The second born and I started chatting everyday.
Then he introduced me to video s*x. At first he will send me pics of his p*nis when he is hard. When I see it, I get wet. Then he will let me send him parts of my body. But anytime I visit them, the last born is around and he and I were doing it so nothing happened between me and the second born. School resumed for University students and he went to school (second born), but the distance even made our chats more and more intense. He never proposed to me but we were having a lot of s*xual conversations. He will call me and tell me all the things he wants to do to me when we get the privacy. In the end, we couldn’t help ourselves. He discussed it with one of his friends who was living in a one in a room hostel and he left the hostel room for him. I was in form 3 in SHS and I lied to his brother that my mother has sent me after school. When we got home, I quickly went to change and picked a car to his school at UPSA.
He was very rough on me during the s*x, but I really enjoyed it a lot. He gave me a lot of money too. I was very naive and it just felt good that a University guy wanted me who was in SHS at that time. Later on, the owner of that particular room also wanted to eat me and the second brother told me about it. He told me the guy has more money than his family and it will only be for a few minutes. So one Saturday, I went there again and the second born introduced me to his friend. The guy who owns the room. He went two rounds on me. I went to his side other weekends after that. Later, that guy bought me a new phone. I even had to hide it from my mother and my boyfriend. (Last born) because they will ask a lot of questions and I didn’t know what to tell them.
After SHS, my passes were not very good. I failed in core maths and elective maths and had Es in Economics and Integrated Science, but my boyfriend passed and went to UCC. The relationship wasn’t working when he went so we broke up. I was still going to their house just to greet his parents. Sometimes when I go, his brothers are there and I greet them. I was having s*x on and off with the second born but it was nothing serious and there were no strings. My mother wanted me to go to a catering school, but I wasn’t sure. All this while I was also still crushing on the first brother. He was about 10 years older than me and he wasn’t looking at me the way I wanted to, but I still wanted him so I kept going to their house.
There were many times when I went there and he was the only one home. With the kind of work he was doing, it was online so he was always behind the computer. When I come, he leaves the hall for me to watch movies and then when I’m leaving, I come and knock on his door to tell him I’m going. One time this guy just told me face to face that he has seen what I’m doing and that I was too young to be trying to seduce a guy. I was so scared he will tell someone about it so I denied it and told him I was just trying to be friendly, since he was always serious. I was 19 years. After that day, he also started chatting me a lot. Then he started asking me if I was scared of him because I stopped going there. As for him, I’m sure he knew I had slept with his brothers. He is quiet but very wise and observant.
I started visiting again and this time he made an advance to sleep with me and I allowed him. Now having s*x with him has been going on for years. The two other brothers have stopped. My ex has a serious girl and the second born is just the fun type. I see different girls going in and out of their house because of the second born. The first born didn’t want anyone to have any idea that he was s*xing me, so we were meeting in a single room he has rented in town almost everyday. I really like him but he only sees me as someone to have s*x with and pay me although I’m not a hookup girl. He got married two years ago and his wife is even pregnant now, but he hasn’t stopped eating me. My single mother also passed away last year and right now I don’t have anyone. I am staying in the single room he rented now and he takes care of me. I like him so much even though he is married and I have done 2 abortions for him. I need help on how to stop this entanglement. It’s like I have become a s*x addict and he is just using me because he is the one taking care of me now. How do I leave him? Sometimes I feel like all the three brothers know that they have slept with me but they don’t care about me anymore. I don’t even hear from them. It’s only the first born who chats me because he still eats me. How do I stop it?