I feel betrayed by my girlfriend and I want to share the story to get some advice and comments from the readers. We have been going steady for two years. I love her so much and I take care of her. Apart from the ghc600 I give her every month, she makes other requests from me and I try my best to giver her all she needs. I have a problem with premature ej*culation and I have been trying to solve it for a while. It’s getting better. I used to reach climax just by she touching my thing before I enter. Now, at least I’m able to enter for a few seconds before I climax. I used to see how unsatisfied she used to be after I’m done so I started doing a lot of foreplay by licking her for long so that she will feel good.
Recently, we quarreled. Her monthly money didn’t come as usual because I had to fix something on my car and it depleted my finances. That was last month July, so I told her she could ask me if she needed anything. I didn’t send her ghc600 that month. I realised that she was billing me even more than the ghc600 I was giving her monthly. That month she was asking me for money every week. It was either money for hair, or electricity or she was not feeling well. At a point I was so tired of her and I asked her where all the money I send her goes. She got angry at my question and it started a fight which led to her insulting me concerning my s*xual issues. I just left the room for her to keep shouting about how I can’t satisfy her in bed and all of that.
Not knowing my girlfriend has already broadcasted this personal issue with her friends in the area and other friends I don’t know about. I broke up with her after the quarrel we had and how she was billing me. After we broke up, the thing really affected me, but on the other hand I became so relieved. I was saving the money I was giving her monthly and I was even able to send money to my mother for her to call me and bless me. So the last time, I was going to buy something in the area when I saw my ex and some of her area friends laughing at me. They were calling me very embarrassing names in twi and that’s how I got to know that she has told people about my inability to satisfy her in bed. She doesn’t stay far from me so I’m sure I will run into her a lot. This girl is acting like a demon and now I’m wondering how I fell love with someone like her. The thing tear for my eye top.
I know many of you will tell me to leave the area. I have considered that, but the place I’m staying is so cool. I’m in very good terms with the landlord, the rent is very cool considering the hardship in the country and I have stayed here for years. It is also close to the roadside and not far from where I work. It is difficult to get a similar place with the same amount in Accra so leaving here is not an option at all. I have been trying to avoid that demon for a while but I still run into her and I just don’t know what to do now.
