My girl is seriously chrife. Thing is, all of us go to the church but everyone’s level of spirituality is different. She is part of the church’s intercessory team and she is very committed to the things of God. I have played around with my share of girls, but when a man wants to settle down, he doesn’t go for those types of girls, he goes for the well-mannered godly ones who will raise his kids well. I am just a normal church guy. I pass by on Sundays when I can, but I don’t go to church every Sunday. I used to notice her in the church services because she was one of those people who sat in front and raised their hands in worship and prayers. It is easy to notice someone like that
I became interested in her because she is really a nice girl and when I introduced myself, she spoke to me nicely. I didn’t rush to take her contact because I know how church girls can be. Some of them read too much into things. So I started coming every Sunday, then I will meet her after service and chat. I took her number later and the rest is history. When I told her I was interested in her, she accepted and then quoted some scriptures about fornication and no seks before marriage. She told me we were both Christians so we should keep this commandment in our relationship and keep it pure. I told her I was cool because If I had said no, that would have been the end of the relationship. So we started and at a point I thought she will cave in and let us do the do. I will flirt with her in our chats and say naughty things because I have heard that some chrife girls will tell you no seks before marriage but they are the same people who will ask for it later.
So I was trying to see if this girl will yield to my traps and temptations. One time I invited her to my place and we started watching a movie but the moment I tried to hold her and initiate something, she stood up and said she was leaving. This girl was acting like she didn’t have feelings and she told me that If I can’t abstain, we should break up. I asked her to forgive me and that it was hard, so I won’t force her again. It was very hard. I personally don’t believe that ‘no seks before marriage’ thing although I’m a Christian too. So I went back to my usual club and met one fine girl there. Those girls know what you want chale so they don’t stress you as far as you have money to give them. So she has become my friend with benefits. Anytime I need the thing, I call her to come over and send her some money. She gives me a good time and leaves. On a normal day, I vibe with her as friends. This is the loophole I have found. My girlfriend’s clause was no seks before marriage between the two of us. Right now, I have not done anything wrong because we have not had seks, but I have found a way to be satisfying myself.
Since I started knacking my friend with benefit, I feel good so I don’t get irritated with my girl and I am showing her more love than I used to. We go out to watch movies and eat out and she is happier so I see it as a win for both of us. She is wife material, and the woman I want to spend my life with. I am seeing if I can sought some things out and marry her next year. My friend with benefit knows our arrangement is temporary so I don’t have a problem with her because I know I am not the only guy knacking her. I just make sure I use protection always. I feel like I am playing my cards well and we are all happy.
