I am a thirty-three year old married man. My wife is thirty and she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I love her with all my heart and she has given me a beautiful baby girl who I adore. Last year, my beautiful wife had a scholarship opportunity to study in the UK. It was a one year course and she was to return early this year which she has. I supported her through all of it and I have tried my best to take care of our two year old daughter on my own. One of my sisters-In-law was coming around during the weekends to help me too. I work in an insurance company and in addition to that, I have two taxis working for me. We will not call ourselves a rich family, but we are trying small small.
My wife has five siblings, she is in good terms with all of them, except a particular one; her younger sister. She comes directly after my wife and they always argue over small things. I am however in good terms with everyone in her family, so my sister-in-law is free with me and my wife hasn’t complained about that. When wifey travelled, her sister started visiting. Her other siblings were calling once a while, but her sister was the only one who took it upon herself to visit me. I can cook and do house chores. We are only boys and our mum made sure we did all that, so it’s not as if I was waiting for her to come on weekends and come and cook for me. But she insisted she will do it for me and her niece so I didn’t say no.
We really bonded through that and I was even giving her money for tnt anytime she came around to visit. We will watch movies, chat, cook together and just be in the house till evening and then she will leave. She did that mostly on Saturdays. But one time we got intimate and I will not give any excuse or blame her. I could have controlled myself so I take full blame. What happened was that I was missing intimacy with my wife. It had been several months and it was getting difficult for me to not miss s*x. I was m*sturbating once a while to fill in the void, but it wasn’t the same. When sis-in-law came, we watched a movie on Netflix and we had a few drinks and before I knew she was on top of me. It was one of those weak moments. I just thank God my daughter was asleep in her room.
My wife’s sis slept at my house that night and when I woke up, I felt extremely bad about what we had done and I told her we shouldn’t repeat it. I also told her it was better she doesn’t visit for a while because this was not good. It was just about three months more for my wife to return and I was very angry with myself that I had waited all this while and couldn’t wait for a few more months. My sister-in-law didn’t listen to me. She will come to my house as usual and one time she even went to the point of trying to hold my pen when I opened the gate for her. So when she came another time, I didn’t open the gate for her. I acted as if my daughter and I were not home. I blocked her and made sure I didn’t answer any call from an unknown number.
I maintained this until my wife returned home. I wish her sister will just leave me alone, but she visited me at work to tell me she misses me and if I should try and ignore her like I am doing, she will tell her sister. There is no evidence that we did anything, but it’s easy to put two and two together. She was visiting me on Saturdays and everyone in the family knew it, including my wife who didn’t like it. So even if I allow her to spill the beans and I deny it, they will believe her more because my wife knows her sister has always been jealous of her and has always wanted what was hers. All I am doing now is begging my sis-in-law to keep quiet because I also have a very good reputation and I don’t want to plant any doubts in my wife’s mind because she trusts me completely. I have been sending my sis-in-law money small small, but she wants us to be doing the do and I can’t do it with her. That one time was a big mistake I made and she won’t leave me alone.