I met this beautiful lady last two weeks when I was going to work, I could see she was new in the neighborhood. Although I don’t know a lot of people within the area, I can make out a new face if I should see one. I stopped and talked to her. She was with her younger sister. We were both in a hurry so I requested for her contact which she gladly gave to me. I called her the next day at work and we had a good conversation. It was like we’ve known each other for decades because the vibe was there. She sounded nice and lively. We spoke about her family and she told me how intelligent she was but didn’t get anyone to sponsor her tertiary education.
It was a good conversation but sad as well, especially when she spoke about her late dad and how her previous boyfriend used and dumped her. She’s actually a church girl so I was cool. I liked her from the start because I believe that to have a good relationship, it doesn’t matter the duration you have known the person. Some people can be friends for 5,10 years and still break up when they start dating because your partner will only let you see what she wants you to know about her when you’re dating. She can choose to hide her bad stuff. I proposed to her, but she initially declined because she said most guys use her and dwell on the fact that she’s vulnerable. They come pretending to be like good people and later use her so she wanted to get her own shop, start work, and then start a new relationship.
I convinced her that I was serious and she eventually gave in. I called her yesternight and you know when love is new, you would be talking and laughing as if you’re getting married next week. But one question she asked which shocked me was that if I’m in a relationship with a lady and I am to find out she’s pregnant what would I do? I initially thought she was asking that if I am to impregnate her, would I take responsibility? I foolishly said yes because obviously if I get a lady pregnant, I need to take responsibility for the pregnancy, but I was very far from right. She said no, she meant if she is pregnant from her previous relationship, what would I do? I was shocked for a moment, because I didn’t expect that. She had initially told me she had broken up with her ex about 6 months ago.
The truth started coming out. I told her as per tradition, a lady can’t see another guy when she’s pregnant not to talk of seks. She said her brezzt have been heavy lately and her nippols have been hard. Before I forget, she had complained of pains in the abdomen and she told me she had fibroid growing up so it was possible it was coming back. I asked her if she was pregnant but she said she tested last four days and it was negative. What made it more serious was when she told me we could still have seks so the baby looks like me. She also said she told her mum she isn’t seeing her body well and her mom asked her if she’s pregnant and she said it could be possible and her mom asked her if she knew the one who’s responsible and she said yes.
She said she doesn’t want to have anything doing with her previous guy so she would tell her mum I’m responsible although she’s saying she isn’t pregnant. I don’t believe her especially when I changed the topic along the line and asked her when she last had seks and she said it was about 6 weeks ago. She claims she had her menses last month but also said it’s possible for you to menstruate in your first month even when you’re pregnant. I told her to be honest with me but she said she isn’t pregnant, but I don’t trust her. She said she’s even a good person to tell me because she could have hidden it from me the moment we had seks and told me I was responsible for the pregnancy. I thanked her for that, but how can I just take responsibility for a pregnancy I know nothing about?
I said I would talk to a doctor friend of mine who could help run tests on her but deep down I don’t know anyone. She said she was going to do the test again today but if it’s negative we should forget about it. What if she lies to me about the results? There’s more but I’m saying a lot, so let me end here. I’m really confused and don’t know what to do. What if she’s actually pregnant, what do I do? Also I would like to know if there is a health worker and can help me run a test to see if the pain in her abdomen is because of the fibroid or she’s actually pregnant.