I will be marrying in three months. The date for the wedding has been set. But now, I am not sure I want to marry him anymore. He is 35 years and I am 29. We have been dating for four years. When we started dating he didn’t tell me he had impregnated a girl when he was 17 and she was 16. I had no idea he had a daughter who was now eighteen years. She was with her mother during all that period and my fiance sent them money monthly. He should have at least told me about it earlier. But this is not the main reason why I want to end the marriage.
Last year, she suddenly emerged into our lives. I went to visit my man and this heavily endowed half-naked teenager opened the door. She was only in bra and panty and the first thing that came to mind was that my man was cheating on me. I confronted him and he later told me that she was his daughter. I only believed him when his own parents confirmed it. I almost broke up with him in that instant. A man who can hide his own daughter from his future wife cannot be trusted. But because of love I forgave him and we moved on. My man and his daughter have suddenly become so close. At first I tried not to be jealous. It is normal right? She hadn’t stayed with him for years and she now wants to be close to her dad. I didn’t want to read anything into it.
But some very strange things are making me wonder if something is happening between the two. The girl is 18, but don’t imagine a skinny 18 years old. She is well-endowed like her mother. I wouldn’t be sharing this story if my intuition was wrong. I have seen how this girl looks at my man. She doesn’t look at him like a daughter looks at her father. I don’t understand why she suddenly wants to stay with us when she knows very well that her father is getting married soon. She is enrolling in a vocational school and she could have just opted to continue to stay with her mother for my fiance to be sending her money like he has done all these years.
The girl also hates me. I have done nothing to her but she cannot even hide her disdain towards me. Even her mother and I are on good terms. There was a time when I entered my man’s bedroom only to see his daughter sitting on his lap on the bed. The girl suddenly jumped up when I entered. They weren’t naked or anything, but I find this to be very very weird. Why would a grown-up girl like this be sitting on her dad’s lap? And why will the two of them be in the bedroom? Couldn’t it have been in the sitting room? I don’t know how to approach this issue with anyone, but I am suspecting incest. I want to call off the wedding because of this. I may not have firm evidence but my intuition has never been wrong and I don’t want to share my husband with his daughter.
