I went out with this guy for years but he wasn’t financially stable and I left him because of that. I admit that I followed money to marry my husband and I regret my actions. My husband made me happy when we were dating and I didn’t know that he will change after marriage. I have been married for three months and my husband has been beating me. I don’t know what to do. I’m not happy in the marriage. After our three days honeymoon, he travelled for two months telling me it’s because of work and since he came he gets angry at everything. I don’t know what to do because he never beat me even once when we were dating. This is a man I went against my family to marry. Everyone said I shouldn’t marry him but I was stubborn so I don’t know how to even tell them that he is beating me. I should have listened to them.
My mother is a single mother and she refused any money from my husband when we were dating. It took a long time before she agreed to the marriage and even with that she didn’t do it wholeheartedly. The thing is, my whole family knew my ex and liked him so when I left him and introduced my husband to them they didn’t like him. I have a friend I have been talking to and the advice she is giving me is not good. She’s suggesting we should go and look for a spiritualist to make my husband do my bidding and stop beating me. I have never done any of this before and I don’t even know if those things work.
My husband’s house is far from my family house and I haven’t visited home or called home. They also haven’t checked on me. I could be dead or alive and they wouldn’t care. One night I was crying alone in the house and I unblocked my ex and sent him a message. I saw the bluetick but he never replied to me. Up to this day. I sent him another message, just asking of him. Nothing bad. But he still doesn’t reply. I know I don’t deserve him but I just needed a friend to talk to and he really understands me. I am very depressed and I’m not happy. How can I divorce my husband. One time he beat and I told him I wanted to leave. He said I can’t. I’m scared of what he is capable of doing if I try to leave.
Any help on how to go about it?
